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Single Ladies: Why Hasn't That Guy Called You Back After Your First Date? Find Out With the Insightful Rachel Greenwald

Single ladies: Imagine this: So, there you are, and it's been a week since the guy you had what you thought was a hot date still hasn't called you.

You're wracking your brain to figure out what happened. Your girlfriends are weighing in with speculations of their own.

They seek to reassure you by saying, "You intimidated him"; he felt "You're too successful" or "He's just not ready for a commitment."

Well, guess what, fellow single women, chances are your friends are WRONG!

I am excited, because there's a fascinating, hard-to-put-down, new book, Why He Didn't Call You Back: 1,000 Guys Reveal What They Really Thought About You After Your Date, from the smart, intrepid, insightful author Rachel Greenwald, a professional dating coach, matchmaker, author of The New York Times bestselling book, Find a Husband After 35: Using What I Learned at Harvard Business School.

You'll be shocked, ladies, because Rachel uncovered the real reasons the guy never called you back after your first date. And ladies, you'll be certain to be surprised -- as well as entertained.

Tune in Monday, April 13, at 3 pm EST on the Gab With the Gurus Radio Show to hear Rachel share her fascinating findings. For instance, the articulate Rachel (see videos here) will reveal some of what she discusses in her fascinating book. She'll tell you:

• What surprised her by her findings after interviewing 1,000 men. (Hint: It's "The Never Ever Mistake"!)
• Why 90 % of the time woman guess wrong about why he didn't call you back.
• Why one thing that you do after a date -- which you think may be nice -- is a no-no! (Oops! I've made that mistake myself, as I'm sure many of you have.)
• The Top 10 Date-Breakers--and what to do about it.
• Some Bloopers -- some funny, rude and weird things men said.

Remember, you can listen to the show live at 3 pm EST -- or later -- at your convenience.

If you listen live, you can ask Rachel some of your pressing dating questions. Just call us here:

Guest call-in number: (347) 426-3366

Catch the show here (below). Remember to tell your girlfriends they can listen live or later.

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